Win or Lose – it’s how you play the game.

I had an amazing weekend watching my boys compete against each other in a billycart race they both REALLY wanted to win. Good sportsmanhip is an admirable skill, but it’s definitely a practice-makes-perfect one. 

It can be difficult as a parent to know what to expect when your kids are put to the test in a public arena. It’s a chance to find out what lessons have gotten through, and what needs more work.

The angry glares and utter determination evident straight after this friendly handshake should’ve struck fear into my heart, but I’d overheard them agreeing to split the prize(s) if they won. And that worked for me. There’s no harm in wanting to succeed, but playing fair and being gracious afterwards – whatever the outcome - is far more important than “just” winning.

My youngest son did a stellar job, coming second in his semi final despite having a blood nose. And my oldest son came 1st overall in their age group. He won a camera – which they’re sharing      

Wishing you all the ability to succeed at the game, even if your win is the kind of quiet victory that comes from knowing you’ve played fairly.

Cheers,

Robyn